Unfair Comparisons

October 9th, 2026

SCRIPTURE: “For we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves. But they, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” II Corinthians 10:12

David, a man after God’s own heart, experienced an unfair comparison. As David and King Saul were returning home from slaughtering the Philistines, the women came out to sing and dance with joy and musical instruments. They sang in I Samuel 18: 7-8a “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands. Then Saul was very angry, and the saying displeased him…”

The Hebrew word translated “angry” means “to burn within” and the Hebrew word for “displease” means “inner turmoil.” As Saul did a slow burn, his stomach turned. Saul’s self-talk led him to “look at David from that day on” with suspicion. Thus, suspicion was fueled by jealousy that grew to hate. Paul’s challenge to the Corinthians was to show humility when he refused to compare himself with others or engage in self-promotion. His only personal concern was what the Lord thought of him.

When we compare ourselves with others we often need certain people to validate us. When that doesn’t happen, we tend to feel ineffective. We have to learn to operate in the sphere of our God given talents and giftedness for God’s glory and choose to please Him. The Lord can do great things through those who don’t care who gets the credit.

PRAYER Lord thank You for conforming me into Your image for Your glory and gifting me with the gifts and talents that testify of You. What a privilege to partner with You in displaying Your Kingdom agenda.
By Sis. Cheryl Torain